A Man Will Change for the Right Woman?

I was strolling through the internet a couple of days ago and I came across a video clip of Steve Harvey.  A few years ago I was one of his fans, because I was just so impressed with “Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man.”  I thought he was revealing the deep secrets of men to help women understand the minds of men.  I’ve slowly lost interest in him, his movies and frankly whatever he has to say.

I have been in love.  I have been married and divorced.  I can say that my ex according to Steve Harvey still hasn’t met that one woman that he will change for because he’s still going from woman to woman and doing the same thing.  He’s since had another woman divorce him and the behavior goes on.  That of course isn’t the fault of anyone but himself. If a man wants to change he should start with himself, the man in the mirror.

Steve Harvey believes that a man will change for the right woman.  I say, stop putting the blame on women.  No person is responsible for another persons behavior.  That man will change when and if he wants to change.  It has nothing to do with the woman he is currently with being the “one,” that right woman, that will make him want to change for her.  Frankly, he should be changing for himself.  To better himself, to be the man he’s capable of being and the man God created him to be.  “Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness;” Genesis 1:26 NKJV 

Women don’t let Steve Harvey comments give you a complex.  That man is misbehaving because that’s what he wants to do.  You’re not lacking what will make him change.  He’s lacking what will make him change.  I say to Steve Harvey, stop putting the blame and responsibility on women because men are not strong or courageous enough to make necessary changes in their lives.  There is no right “woman,” just the choice of a man to grow up and do the right thing!

Brenda Morgan

Life, God and the Bible

 

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